I’m going to start off by getting politically correct. I only named this post “Gender Reveal” because that’s the term everyone uses, that’s how it’ll be searched, and that’s how people are going to know what I’m talking about. People throw around the terms “sex” and “gender” as if they’re the same thing – but they are not.
The correct term for this party should be “Sex Reveal Party” because that’s what you find out when you’re pregnant – the sex of the baby. Sex is literally the physical body parts. Gender on the other hand, is how the person identifies. For most people, their sex and gender are aligned. In some rare instances, the person truly deep down feels like they should have been born with the opposite body parts because they feel like the opposite sex on the inside. Since we obviously can’t tell what the baby’s gender will be while it’s still in utero, we should only ever be referring to their sex.
Anyway….
I got the amazing opportunity to be the baker for a friend’s sex reveal party. Mama-to-be and Daddy-to-be did not even know the sex, so the tech actually sent me an email directly to let me know the color for the big surprise!
I just found the best ever Homemade Funfetti Recipe, and Mama-to-be requested funfetti, so it was perfect! (I’m not going to list the ingredients and directions here since I just posted it, but go check it out if you want to make some awesome funfetti!!)
The best thing about funfetti from scratch is that you can have whatever colored sprinkles you want. I added just pink and blue for these special cupcakes.
After baking them, I used a melon baller to core out a hole in the top of just 3 of the cupcakes. Then I made my Easy Buttercream Recipe, colored a small amount, and squeeze it into the hole.
Since I was topping these with white frosting, and I didn’t want the color to seep into the white and ruin the surprise, I left them to crust over a bit while I went to Michaels. 🙂
Then I just piped swirls on the tops and sprinkled the tops with colored sugar.
Mama-to-be and Daddy-to-be each got a special cupcake with the color hidden inside.
The 3rd cupcake with the color was mixed in with the rest of the cupcakes and randomly distributed to their party guests. One lucky guest got the surprise center cupcake announcing to everyone that they’re having a BOY!!
These cupcakes were super fun to make and fun to be able to know before the excited parents to be!
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I posted the cored-out cupcake picture above (without the color) on my Instagram to tease the Mama-to-be, and just said something like “Making gender reveal cupcakes” …. and I didn’t even think about it but everyone thought it was MY reveal! Haha, nope – sorry guys, mine is going to be a surprise when Baby comes!!!
You make an EXCELLENT point! I think people say gender reveal because it doesn’t sound as….weird? as sex reveal, but that’s all it is – just the sex! Not the gender 🙂
thanks Jennifer! I know most people don’t think twice about it but it bugs me every time because it doesn’t make sense!
I hate when people go off on a tangent about sex vs gender. Seriously that was really unnecessary for a blog about cakes and cookies.
Thanks for the feedback Stacy. All I was doing was defining the terms that people use incorrectly. I very rarely speak up about my personal opinions on matters, but sometimes it’s hard to keep my personal life 100% out of this blog. It’s who I am and what I’m about.
You’re brave. I’d never be able to have it be a surprise!
It’s been fun! My husband asked me yesterday if I would have the next one be a surprise too and I said yes, of course!!
Hi, love your cupcakes! Can’t wait to try out the recipe.
I was doing some more research and found your picture (a bit photoshopped) being used on this site: http://genderrevealcakery.com/shop/cupcakes/sugar-sprinkled-cupcakes/
Even though this is from 4 years ago… thought you’d like to know!
Thank you! I’m definitely looking into it!